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The right care is empowering – and gives peace of mind

At Atria, we believe the right amount of discreet personal care can help older people participate, grow and engage in what brings them purpose and joy.

We also believe in supporting families by doing everything we can to reassure them their parent is safe, well cared for and meaningfully connected to others.

Sheila and Rochelle

After her husband of 59 years passed away, Rochelle didn’t want to live alone. Friends suggested senior living, and her daughter, Sheila, traveled to North Carolina to help search for options. After touring Atria Southpoint Walk, they made their decision.

“It was wonderful,” Sheila said. “We knew within 10 minutes this was the place.”

A self-professed social butterfly, Rochelle settled right in. She loved the full calendar of events, friendly neighbors and chef-prepared meals. Sheila was relieved to see her mother gaining back the weight she’d lost after her father passed away.

Two years later, Rochelle took a fall. Sheila came to visit from Illinois while her mother recuperated. During treatment, doctors noticed a bit of memory loss and diagnosed Rochelle with mild dementia.

“Dementia doesn’t run in our family, so I didn’t know what to do,” said Sheila. “That’s when I started Googling.”

Sheila discovered Atria Glenview 10 minutes from her home in Illinois. Rochelle’s dementia was mild enough for her to move into assisted living, with specialized care available in the community’s Life Guidance® memory care neighborhood, if needed.

“It was much like the independent living community Mom came from so it was a good fit,” stated Sheila. “But knowing she had help taking her medications and staff to make sure she was eating was such a relief.”

Eventually, Rochelle’s dementia progressed, and she moved to Life Guidance. Sheila said the staff at Atria were there for both of them, every step of the way. The team not only provided compassionate, highly personalized care for her mother, they helped Sheila understand more about dementia, what to expect and ways to cope with her own feelings – through support groups and phone calls at least twice a week from Life Guidance Director Kelly Burnett.

“The regular contact eases my mind,” Sheila added. “I’ve been able to express my own fears and concerns without being dismissed. I can’t tell you how much that matters.

“When you think of all the changes that have happened with my mom, having Atria on our side to guide us has been invaluable. I don’t think people realize how deep the support can go at Atria.”

Jack and Richard

Jack gets around. The 89-year-old resident of Atria Oakridge in North Carolina knows every dining room server by name and most of his neighbors, too. Before COVID-19, he loved playing the piano during ice cream socials.

“Dad is really outgoing,” said his son, Richard. “He enjoys talking with people, and he’s sharp as a tack. He’s thoroughly enamored with Atria.”

Jack came to live at the community a few years ago after his wife moved into a skilled nursing facility. Richard lives 600 miles away and didn’t want to worry about his father living alone.

“I don’t think it would do him well to be on his own completely,” said Richard. “It’s not safe for someone his age.

“Since he’s been at Atria, I’m confident he’s in good hands. I never have to worry. That’s priceless to me.”

Holly and Martin

Martin moved to Atria Sugar Land in Texas four years ago. At 93, he often forgets to wear a face mask when leaving his apartment. Lucky for him, staff find creative ways to help; lately, they’ve been hanging a face mask on his walker with a friendly message reminding him to wear it.

“They’ve hired really great people,” said Martin’s daughter, Holly. “I work in education, so I know in any school system you can be in the worst building with great teachers or the best building with bad teachers. It’s all about the people.”

When searching for senior living, Holly and her father explored several communities to find one that was warm and welcoming. The day they toured Atria, Martin’s wife was too sick to join them.

“I told them we’d have one less for lunch, so the staff packed a meal to take with us for my stepmom,” continued Holly. “Little things like that speak volumes.”

Knowing her father has support around the clock gives Holly and her siblings comfort. Two years ago, Martin’s health issues required a hospital stay. After returning to Atria, he was weak and needed extra support. Staff escorted him to meals and checked on him several times throughout the night.

“Just knowing that attention was there lifted a big weight off our shoulders,” said Holly.

Regular communication also puts her mind at ease.

“That’s huge,” she said. “You want to know what’s going on and they keep us updated by email and phone.

“It’s clear to see they really care about residents. And I don’t have to worry.”

 

Discover how empowering the right care can be at Atria Senior Living at ExploreAtriaCare.com.

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Knowing when it’s time for a parent to stop driving

Have you ever needed a car repair and found yourself at the mercy of a friend, taxi or subway? The ability to drive means freedom, and without it you have to rely on other, less convenient means of transportation.

Even temporary inconveniences like these remind us that being our own driver is a privilege, and for older adults who can no longer drive safely, losing this privilege can be difficult for them and for you. Mom or Dad may be reluctant to hand over the car keys, and you might worry about how they’ll get around in the future.

Telling your parent it’s time to stop driving can feel like grounding your teenager all over again. The primary concern is safety (for your parent and for other drivers), so don’t let fear stop you from intervening. It’s also important to know when to do so. Age alone isn’t a predictor of poor driving, and caregivers should understand what factors to look for:

1. Altered Driving Behavior
Has Dad stopped driving long distances, even though he loves his annual road trip? Is he reluctant to drive at night or in bad weather? Has Mom been in an accident or had a few close calls? Do they miss important street signs and signals or seem “on edge” while driving? If yes, these behaviors can indicate that they no longer feel comfortable behind the wheel.

2. Hearing/Vision Impairment
Has Mom or Dad complained about poor vision, or do they seem hard of hearing lately? Good vision and hearing are critical for safe driving. Aside from the natural decline in eyesight that comes with aging, a number of eye conditions can also hinder an aging adult’s ability to focus and use their peripheral vision to detect pedestrians, traffic lights and other vehicles. A decline in hearing may impair your loved one’s ability to detect external cues such as sirens or a car horn.

3. Slowed Reaction Time
Safe driving requires quick thinking and the ability to multi-task. As with vision and hearing, cognitive decline also accompanies aging, and can hinder your parent’s ability to quickly react to unexpected scenarios (i.e., sudden braking or swerving to avoid a collision).

4. Medical Conditions
Discomfort from arthritis can cause older adults to restrict their movements, which could impair their ability to drive safely. Joint pain can compromise a person’s ability to fasten a seat belt, glance over the shoulder to assess traffic and even securely grip the steering.

Memory impairment – especially Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia – can also affect driving abilities. Can Mom remember where the grocery is? Does she routinely get lost or miss turns?

5. Medication Usage
While prescription medications can greatly improve the quality of life for aging adults, they can also put them at risk. Certain medications or drug interactions may have side effects that impair safe driving. If Mom or Dad’s prescription(s) have changed recently, be sure to check the labels for warnings and double-check with their doctor about possible drug interactions.

To get a firsthand look at your parent’s ability behind the wheel, offer to ride along with them the next time they run an errand. Take note of any of the behaviors mentioned above and discuss with another caregiver or family member to see if they have noticed the same behaviors.

Then, ask your Mom or Dad if they feel comfortable driving. If you have concerns, tell them specifically what you noticed, and suggest a checkup with their physician to assess their vision and hearing and any medical conditions that could impact driving safety. Regular doctors visits can help ensure that Mom or Dad is able to continue driving safely.

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Alzheimer’s & Dementia

Memory care tour questions: part 3

Part Three: Staff Training & Education

If you’re considering care for a family member who is living with the challenges of Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia, one of the most important factors to consider is the training and education provided to their caregivers.

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Memory care tour questions: part 2

Part Two: Engaging Activities

If you’re considering care for a family member who is living with the challenges of Alzheimer’s or another form of memory impairment, the items at the top of your checklist are likely related to finding a safe and healthy living arrangement where your family member will not just live, but live well. When you visit a senior living community, take every opportunity to ask questions about their memory care program.

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Memory care tour questions: part 1

Part One: Living Environment | Alzheimer’s and Memory Care

When you’re making a personal visit to an assisted living community, take every opportunity you have to ask questions about Alzheimer’s and memory care.

It may be helpful if you divide your questions between a few main topics: Living Environment, Engaging Activities, Staff Training and Education and Quality Assurance.

In this installment of a three-part series, we’ll help with things you should look for in a living environment that will help your family member live well.

Look at the Surroundings

First, take a look around the community and observe the residents. Are the residents engaged in elementary activities, or are they living full, enriched lives in an environment that encourages grown-up engagement? Are they well-groomed and dressed neatly? They should be.

Walk the Community

Take a moment to walk the community. Is the space welcoming, vibrant and purposefully designed to accommodate residents with memory impairments? Residents with memory impairments may wander to help relieve stress, boredom, relieve discomfort or pain. An ideal design of a memory care environment would include opportunities for residents to walk within the secured environment and access to outdoor space (during appropriate weather).

Safety

You want to feel confident that your loved one is safe, and also that they are free to move about with exposure to sunlight, plants, birds and other things that make them happy. You want to feel confident that your loved one is safe, and also that they are free to move about with exposure to sunlight, plants, birds and other things that make them happy. You should get the sense that your loved one will feel free and relaxed, rather than confined and anxious.

To this end, consider whether the staff greets and welcomes you with open smiles. That’s a pretty good indicator of a positive environment. If there is tension in the air, you can generally see it on staff members’ faces.

Safety, of course, is of utmost concern. It’s easy to see the signs of a safe neighborhood:

  • Do the doors promptly re-secure when you enter or exit?
  • Are all doors secured to prevent wandering in unsecured spaces?
  • Are there handrails in the hallways to aid in balance?
  • Is there enough space for the number of residents who live there to comfortably participate in activities and physical exercise?
  • What about power outages or plant emergencies, such as a fire? Is there a defined evacuation plan? How are the residents protected during events such as these?
  • Are windows secured – specifically, are the windows in each resident’s apartment secure?

Ask questions about the community’s call system and the staff’s ability to respond timely to your family member’s needs. Staff carry pagers and/or radios with them as means to communicate with each other. Pagers alert staff when something unusual happens (a door opens that generally shouldn’t, a door leading out to the courtyard or an alert button/pendant).

Another safety feature is systematic and routine checks on residents to be sure they are okay. The need for status checks and their frequency are based on each resident’s service plan. Certainly, basic cleanliness is worth considering as well. Are all of the rooms and open areas clean? Are there any lingering odors? What about the dining room? Is it clean and comfortable?

A supportive community will always promote independence by offering their residents choices. Simple choices work best for those with memory impairments. For example, a choice between a blue shirt or a yellow shirt versus choosing any shirt from their closet. We pride ourselves on offering our Life Guidance®residents the same dining experience as in Assisted Living. Pay particular attention to the dining experience, the quality of food the community offers and if they adjust their menu selections to accommodate the changing needs of the residents. Stay tuned for Part Two of the series, which will focus on Engaging Activities and their role in the lives of residents with memory impairments.

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A host of benefits: Socializing and dementia

I recently sat down with Mike Gentry, Senior Vice President of Care and Life Guidance®, to talk about the role social interaction plays in helping those who are living with memory impairment.

ASL: Does an active social life have a positive impact on people with memory impairments? In what way?

MG: Long-standing research suggests that people with a history of untreated clinical depression are more likely to develop Alzheimer’s disease. The saying, “The brain loves company,” comes to mind. So yes, being around other people – being socially engaged – definitely has a positive influence on dementia and depression.

ASL: Why is social interaction so important to productive memory care?

MG: Studies have shown that social interaction is the best therapy for dementia care. It has value in the treatment for dementia because when a person with dementia feels that they’re surrounded by friends and family, they feel free to be more active. This freedom helps fight depression and builds their confidence and self-esteem. It makes them feel comfortable.

We’ve seen that when Life Guidance residents feel comfortable and more connected, it leads to less challenging behaviors; they are not as likely to try to leave or seek exit. They feel more at home.

ASL: How do we encourage social interaction among our Life Guidance residents?

MG: We’ve found that focusing on each residents’ life story encourages them to open up and talk about what they can recall in their past more than discussing their more recent memories. Additionally, our programming and activities encourage social interaction throughout the day. We encourage staff to help residents leave their apartments and participate in events, and invite people to be together – including introducing residents to one another. Our activity program is designed to bring together residents who share similar interests. And our caregivers make connections with residents as well.

ASL: Have you encountered families of Atria residents who have demonstrated delayed memory degradation that you believe we can attribute to social living?

MG: We often hear families say, “Mom is doing so much better since she moved into Life Guidance.”

Whereas before, many residents either lived home alone or stayed in their assisted living apartment, they now have less worries, feel more confident and participate in social activities.

We don’t have anything clinical to show that we slow the progress of the disease, however, our Life Guidance programming helps residents operate at their best – rather than their worst. Enhancing their quality of life is our goal, and the social living model is a powerful way to achieve that. The environment brings out their old personalities, mannerisms and habits. It’s really therapeutic.

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Alzheimer’s: a caregiver’s challenge

We recognize that the commitment to care for a family member suffering from Alzheimer’s disease or dementia is one of the greatest sacrifices a caregiver can make. You’re challenged not only to adopt a new role with your mom or dad, but also to commit to tasks that challenge traditional parent/child social boundaries. Providing this sort of care often calls for tremendous emotional and physical strength.

From an emotional standpoint, you are tasked with caring for your parent or family member, who, in most cases, cared for you through a good portion of your formative years. Making the shift to being their operative parent is difficult, at best, particularly when they suffer from a progressive memory impairment that requires a nimble caregiving approach.

For example, the early signs of Alzheimer’s disease may not seem like they warrant a second thought – difficulties with short-term memory, losing track of items around the house, forgetting to fill prescriptions or buy groceries, and getting lost in familiar places. However, those symptoms can progress quickly and require a more attentive approach. People suffering from early Alzheimer’s disease may become irritable or withdrawn and may appear depressed at times. Certainly, when the disease has progressed to this point, a higher level of care is required.

Furthermore, as Alzheimer’s disease advances to moderate and severe stages, providing care at home becomes highly challenging. Your parent’s sleep-wake cycle may alter, for instance, causing them to wander in the middle of the night. Impulsive behaviors such as inappropriate comments in public may occur. Hostile or even violent behaviors, often directed toward caregivers, can occur. Impulsive behaviors may lead to falls and debilitating injuries. Other symptoms of advanced dementia include urinary and fecal incontinence. Intensive assistance is required for basic daily activities such as using the toilet, bathing, and even eating. As the symptoms of dementia progress, so does the burden on the caregiver.

Even with the most dedicated of caregivers and maximal support from the community, many people suffering from Alzheimer’s disease will often thrive better in an assisted living community. Caregivers frequently feel guilty for moving their family member to a community, particularly when they have cared for that person for a length of time; however, the burden of caring for a family member is often simply too much for any one person to handle.

Many memory care communities provide extensive support and comprehensive care to an extent that is difficult for many families to provide at home. These communities allow you, as the caregiver, to focus on what’s important for your parent, which is your emotional support.

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Making the Decision

What older adults want when choosing senior living

Talking to Mom or Dad about moving is the first challenge. Finding a community that offers what it takes to help them be happy and healthy is the next.

Atria Senior Living has been serving older adults and their families for more than 20 years. During that time, we have continually developed and refined key services and amenities the majority of seniors tend to prefer. Keep the following in mind when searching for the best option.

Nourishment comes in many forms

For many older adults, dining is at the top of their list. Making sure a community offers a variety of fresh, flavorful and nutritious options is a priority, and becomes even more important when an individual has special dietary restrictions.

Questions to consider include: Does the community’s meal preparations and table service fit your family member’s expectations? Do residents order from a menu with table service or are meals served buffet style? Is there a set meal each day of the week or a variety to choose from? Is the kitchen staff willing to go “off menu” for special requests? What are the kitchen’s hours? Can Mom or Dad get something to eat whenever they want?

Since dining experiences usually provide social nourishment, residents want the setting to be inviting and organized in a way that encourages connection with neighbors. Atria agrees and places a strong emphasis on bringing residents together.

Discuss these aspects of a community’s dining program with your mom or dad before making a final decision. We’ve found the overall dining experience can make a world of difference in their day-to-day life.

Discretion is advised

At Atria, we believe in treating each individual with the utmost respect and consideration. With this comes the expectation that any form of personal care a resident requires will be performed in a discreet, professional manner.

Gone are the days of waiting at a window for a little paper cup. Medications also should be provided in the privacy of a resident’s apartment.

Social engagement is a friend of good health

People are living longer than ever before, and today’s older adults expect, even demand, an active and engaging lifestyle. At Atria, we provide a monthly calendar tailored to their unique interests and talents of residents.

Social connection promotes intellectual stimulation, which is key to maintaining cognitive health in older adults. In fact, one critical reason many families give for choosing to move an older family member to senior living is the lack of social interaction they experience living at home alone.

Atria encourages families to review the events calendars at communities you’re considering. The activity program should include a variety of events, including regular group activities such as yoga and strength-training classes, book clubs, volunteer opportunities, day trips and arts and crafts workshops, for example. Also, find out if staff members at the community are willing and dedicated to making sure your parent leaves their apartment often enough to get involved, meet new people and make friends.

Location, location, location

People of all ages appreciate when familiar faces are nearby so consider the community’s physical location. One of the main concerns older people have is staying close to family and friends. Knowing people in the area where you live creates an atmosphere of safety and security.

It’s natural to spend time outside

Many seniors also want to live in a community where they can safely spend time outdoors. Whether it’s a recreation area or park, a walking path, courtyard or pool area, older adults enjoy spending time in nature. Like all of us, seniors prefer to see a lovely view of their surroundings through their windows.

Go for a test drive

The best way to choose a community that’s right for your older family member is to visit as many as possible in the locations you prefer. Request a tour and the opportunity to sample lunch or dinner. Chat with residents. Review their events calendar. Make notes about each experience to compare later. Do your homework and the ideal community will reveal itself. Happy hunting!

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Alzheimer’s & Dementia

What is memory care?

As we grow older, forgetting a few things here and there is to be expected; in fact, absent-mindedness is fairly common. When memory loss becomes more than just a little absent-mindedness, it might be a sign of a degenerative illness such as Alzheimer’s or dementia. Although memory processing may slow with age, forgetting details like your home address or the current year are signs of a considerably different issue.

The statistics regarding Alzheimer’s and dementia in the United States are staggering. According to www.alz.org, more than 5 million Americans are living with the disease and nearly 15 percent of caregivers for people with Alzheimer’s are long-distance caregivers.

In response to this trend, many senior living communities now offer services that accommodate older adults with memory impairments. In our case, we call this service “Memory Care” or “Life Guidance.”

But, what does this mean?

It is our position that a person with dementia can continue to live an engaging, meaningful and joyful life. Why should their experience with aging be much different? Emotionally, they seek the same thing we all do – security, fulfillment and joy.

For these individuals and their families dealing with the challenges of dementia, we offer a forward-thinking memory care program featuring thoughtfully designed spaces, innovative programming and industry-leading quality standards.

We purposefully structure an intimate setting that allows our specially trained staff to provide more personalized care and attention. We also create welcoming, vibrant neighborhoods that feature comfortable amenities and secure outdoor spaces.

But, most importantly, we employ a whole-person approach to events programming that offers abundant opportunities tailored to personal interests.

For any memory care community, there are a few expectations you should keep in mind when you are considering your options.

First, there should be private or semi-private rooms available for your family member. This allows for as much independence as possible, with appropriate monitoring given the state of the resident’s impairment.

Of course, you should expect regular services such as daily meals, housekeeping and laundry service. There should also be careful and documented medical management services available.

An effective memory care provider should feature a full calendar of engaging events, specifically designed for those with memory impairments. Daily engagements should be planned and the caregivers should be equipped to handle these types of residents with confidence and meaningful attention.

And, of course, 24-hour assistance from a personalized team of caregivers is a necessity.

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ALF and SNF: What’s the difference?

For individuals who may not be able to independently manage all of their post-hospitalization care, understanding next steps and care options is critical for a smooth recovery. A hospital discharge planner or case manager is typically responsible for helping patients and their families navigate the process of planning for a hospital discharge.

The discharge planner or case manager may recommend an assisted living facility (ALF) or a skilled nursing facility (SNF) for assistance during recovery. Understanding what these hospital discharge plans entail can help families make an informed decision about care.

Assisted living facility (ALF)

An ALF is a residential care option that resembles an apartment complex. Assisted living residents receive help with activities of daily living (ADLs), like getting dressed, bathing, medication management and transferring (moving from one place to another) – all provided by trained staff.

ALFs also offer services such as meals, housekeeping, laundry and events designed to foster connection.

Who can live in an ALF?

Eligibility for living in an ALF varies according to each state’s regulations, but it generally involves needing assistance with at least two ADLs.

In addition to assisted living, many senior living communities offer independent living. There aren’t minimum care requirements for independent living, and choosing a community that offers both living options allows residents to age in place as their care needs change. It can also offer couples with different care needs the ability to live together while having access to the right level of support.

How to pay for assisted living

ALFs are private pay. Though you may be planning an assisted living short-term stay due to increased care needs, these communities are not covered by Medicare or health insurance. Depending on the policy, long-term care insurance may cover assisted living.

Skilled nursing facility (SNF)

SNFs, or skilled nursing facilities, are designed for individuals requiring a higher level of medical care, often involving nursing staff and regular medical procedures.

Who can live in a SNF?

Skilled nursing facilities offer a level of care that can only be administered by trained, registered nurses. For those with acute or chronic illness, a SNF may be the best option for providing adequate care. This might include wound care, injections, ostomy care and tube feedings.

How to pay for a SNF

Sometimes referred to as nursing homes, SNFs offer various payment options, though it’s important to note that Medicare does not cover long-term stays. Under specific conditions, Medicare may cover a SNF for a limited time.

Those considering a SNF should be prepared to use personal assets for care costs until potentially qualifying for state assistance programs like Medicaid. The admissions office at the SNF may be able to help you apply for Medicaid.

Finding the right care

When older adults are in the hospital, physicians and case managers may think a SNF is the only answer. However, assisted living can offer a safe and engaging nursing home alternative, providing the necessary care without the costs associated with intensive medical services.
Receiving a thorough care assessment by an ALF can help your family determine if assisted living can meet your needs.

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