Category: Making the Decision

When you step into Atria Chandler Villas, you can feel the warmth. It’s not just another senior living community; it’s a place where people genuinely care about one another, and every interaction is full of kindness and respect. Shiron Ruff, the Executive Director, felt this connection right away.

“Atria Chandler Villas is truly a special place. I knew it from the moment I walked in on my first day,” Ruff shares. “The staff and residents here have such big hearts. We’re like family, always looking out for each other. The positive energy makes coming to work a joy!”

It’s this tight-knit, compassionate spirit, combined with an unwavering commitment to excellence, that has led Atria Chandler Villas to a major achievement: the prestigious “Q” Award. This award is one of Atria Senior Living’s highest honors, given only to communities that exceed the rigorous standards of the company’s Quality Enhancement (QE) program.

What is the Q Award?

Atria’s Quality Enhancement program stands out in the senior living industry for its thoroughness and attention to detail. With unannounced reviews twice a year, the program assesses over 400 performance indicators – from first impressions and cleanliness to resident services and culinary quality. Achieving a Quality Enhancement score of 90% or higher is no small feat, but doing so for three consecutive years is a true testament to the commitment of the Atria Chandler Villas team.

“We’re so proud to bring home the Q Award for the third year straight,” says Ruff. “This team is amazing! Everyone is committed to excellence – not just during reviews but every single day. This success doesn’t belong to one single person; it takes a village. Each person plays their part.”

The emphasis on teamwork is key. From administration and housekeeping to caregiving and culinary services, each staff member plays a key role in making Atria Chandler Villas the wonderful place it is. By working together and keeping quality top of mind, they’ve created a space where residents feel valued and can thrive.

Why Quality Matters in Senior Living

The residents of Atria Chandler Villas experience the benefits of this quality-focused service every day. They enjoy a clean and well-maintained environment, timely and personalized care, delicious meals and engaging activities – these are just a few of the things that make life here special.

But quality is about more than just services. It’s about the culture within the community. “Our residents benefit from our quality standard and all the other programs Atria promotes. It also allows the leadership team to focus their efforts on developing culture and customer service within our four walls,” Ruff explains.

Atria Senior Living is committed to helping its communities provide not only quality care, but also a real sense of belonging. Programs like Engage Life® events and personalized care plans help residents live with purpose, dignity and joy.

A Team Committed to Excellence

Earning the Q Award three years in a row isn’t just an achievement; it’s a reflection of the dedication each team member brings to work each day. Their commitment to excellence isn’t about high scores. It’s about making Atria Chandler Villas a place where residents feel safe, cared for and truly at home.

“We’re more than coworkers – we’re a family,” says Ruff. “Everyone here is dedicated to our community’s success. That’s what makes Atria Chandler Villas such a great place to live and work.”

While they celebrate the honor of a third-straight Q Award, the team at Atria Chandler Villas isn’t slowing down. They’re dedicated to living the values of the QE program every day, always aiming to improve and ensuring their residents receive the best possible care.

Looking to the Future

As 2024 comes to a close, Atria Chandler Villas stands proudly among 70 other Atria communities that earned the Q Award this year. While the award is a wonderful symbol of recognition, it’s the sense of pride that comes from making a real difference in residents’ lives that truly drives this team.

As we age, one of the most significant decisions we face is where to live.

While many older adults prefer to remain in the comfort of their homes, studies show that community living can provide the support needed for people to live more independently, longer. It’s important that families carefully evaluate which option can best provide both independence and quality of life.

The Realities of Aging in Place

For many older adults, the idea of staying in a familiar environment surrounded by cherished belongings and memories is appealing. However, continuing to live in a long-time home comes with both advantages and disadvantages.

Advantages

• Comfort and familiarity: Remaining in a familiar home can provide older adults with emotional security and avoid the worries that may accompany moving.
• Maintaining routines: Continuing long-established daily routines can promote a sense of independence and control over an individual’s environment.
• Proximity to community: Older adults may already have established relationships with their neighbors and local services, which can bring a sense of comfort and stability.
• Cost considerations: For those who don’t require home modifications or in-home care, remaining in a house that’s been paid off may be more affordable than moving.

Disadvantages

• Home modifications: Many homes are not designed to accommodate aging adults, and necessary modifications such as ramps, grab bars or stairlifts can be costly.
• Increased risk of isolation: As a person’s mobility decreases, staying socially connected becomes more difficult, which can lead to social isolation and loneliness. The National Institute on Aging shows these factors have been linked to an increased risk of depression, anxiety, high blood pressure, heart disease, stroke and dementia.
• Safety concerns: Without proper home modifications, everyday tasks such as cooking, cleaning and bathing can pose safety risks, increasing the likelihood of accidents.
• Limited access to health care: Older adults who remain in their homes but depend on others for transportation may neglect timely medical care, risking an escalation of minor health concerns.
• Caregiver burnout: Family members often take on caregiving roles, which can lead to emotional and physical strain over time.

Senior Living Communities: An Empowering Alternative

It’s a common misconception that moving into a senior living community limits a person’s independence. In fact, these communities are specially designed to foster autonomy while offering essential support to enhance overall quality of life. Here are some of the key benefits senior living communities offer.

• Comfort and convenience: Life is simplified, with housekeeping, meals and maintenance handled by staff, while utilities and transportation are often included in the monthly rate.
• Opportunities for social connection: A variety of events, including exercise classes, group outings and volunteer opportunities, help older adults stay engaged and feel fulfilled. Research published in Nature shows that having a sense of purpose contributes to longevity by supporting a stronger immune system and improving mental well-being.
• Healthier mind and body: Easy access to health care, nutritious meals and fitness programs promote better physical and mental well-being. A study by the National Investment Center for Seniors Housing and Care (NIC) found that older adults in senior living communities tend to live longer and healthier lives compared to those who live alone.
• 24/7 care access: Senior living offers a sense of safety with round-the-clock support, which may include personal assistance, medication management and specialized services for memory-related conditions like dementia.
• Family relief: Caregivers enjoy a sense of relief after a family member moves to senior living. Because communities tend to the many duties of caregiving, families can focus on spending quality time together rather than managing to-dos.

Supporting Independence and Enhancing Quality of Life

Making the best decision between continuing to live in a familiar environment and moving to a senior living community depends on factors like health, mobility and social needs. While “aging in place” often refers to staying in the comfort of a long-time home, it can also refer to choosing a community that will accommodate changing care needs over time – and may even help prevent them. With access to care, social activities and a community of peers, families often find senior living can promote independence and provide an improved quality of life.

Curious what a day in the life of a senior living resident looks like?

“It’s fabulous,” says Atria resident Barbara R.

Whether she’s chatting with neighbors in the film club or painting in her art studio, Barbara’s days are filled with friendship, fun and fulfillment.

Keep reading to learn more about Barbara’s story and what she looks forward to as a resident at Atria Bell Court Gardens in Tucson, Arizona.

What is a typical day like for you?

Barbara: My favorite thing to do here – I still go to work. I go to work every day in the art studio I rent in downtown Tucson. It’s just the most fabulous space. It’s like a miracle. It’s a 100-year-old warehouse that’s made out of brick with 20-some-foot ceilings and skylights that look like they’re in a European movie. It’s fabulous!

So I go to work, and then I come back here to Atria and meet up with this group of people who feel like family to me. And we have a dinner party – and none of us have to cook. We can talk like mad, have a glass of wine and then go back to our apartments.

Tell us about some of the senior living activities you and your friends participate in?

Barbara: We formed a film club. So, we’re seeing films from other countries every Wednesday night at 6:30. And then usually a discussion happens right after the film. Sometimes we keep talking about the film over the next couple of dinners. But basically, it’s like my ideal life. I get to paint all day and then go to a dinner party every night – that I didn’t have to design – with people I love.

What else do you and your neighbors have in common?

Barbara: These people have traveled all over the world. They all read books. They listen to the news. And they’re just kind. I mean, just the sweetest people. When friends of mine visit me, I try to make sure they meet my little Atria family, because that to me is part of the heart of the place.

The other thing is the staff. It’s like you’re on a cruise because the staff is from all over the world. I would say the pervading feeling is a sense of their kindness and wanting to help you. So basically, dinner parties every night and interacting with the people who work here who love their job.

Making decisions about the care of a parent as they age can be challenging and emotional. It’s not just about choosing a place to live; it’s about finding the right environment where they will thrive. For families trying to choose between assisted living and nursing homes, understanding the differences is crucial for finding the right care.

In this comparison, we’ll explore each option so your family can make an informed choice.

Assisted living facilities: Greater independence with the right support

Assisted living communities offer a balance of independence and support. Designed for seniors who require some daily assistance but still wish to lead an active lifestyle, these communities provide a social environment that combats loneliness in seniors and fosters physical, emotional and cognitive wellness.

A social lifestyle designed to maintain good health

Studies show that good friends are good for your health. Community living has been proven to reduce a variety of ailments, from cognitive decline and heart disease to anxiety and depression. One of the benefits of senior living communities is that they offer daily events and activities for seniors. The programs offered by a community can indicate whether or not it would be a good fit.

Personalized care

Assisted living communities respect residents’ independence while offering support for activities of daily living (ADLs), such as getting dressed, bathing and medication assistance. Care isn’t one-size-fits-all, though. Finding a community that offers a personalized approach ensures that individual care needs are met, and changes in health and well-being are noticed.

While assisted living communities don’t typically offer skilled nursing services, you may find a community that offers regular care assessments and on-site healthcare services – giving residents and their families peace of mind.

Senior living amenities and services

Amenities such as a fitness center, swimming pool and nutritious dining experiences all enhance the well-being of older adults. Entrusting daily tasks such as cooking, cleaning and household maintenance to a professional staff frees assisted living residents to enjoy life and spend more time doing things they want to do.

Nursing homes: Intensive senior care services

Nursing homes cater to individuals who require extensive 24-hour medical care for acute or chronic illnesses. These facilities are equipped with professional healthcare personnel, making them suitable for complex health conditions that cannot be self-managed or addressed in an assisted living community.

Long-term care facilities can provide for many needs and services. Understanding your family’s long-term care options will help you make a confident choice.

Full-time medical care

Skilled nursing care and professional healthcare practitioners providing round-the-clock care are the key components of nursing homes. These facilities offer a higher level of medical attention, which includes rehabilitation, intensive therapies and specialized care plans.

Structured environment

Nursing homes offer a medically oriented environment rather than the social setting you’ll find in assisted living communities. While less emphasis is placed on social events, many nursing home facilities do offer some activities.

How to choose between assisted living and a nursing home

At its core, the decision between assisted living and a nursing home comes down to the level of care required. It’s about aligning care needs with the right environment – one that not only ensures safety but also promotes a sense of belonging and happiness.

For those who benefit from daily support but don’t require round-the-clock skilled nursing care, assisted living can be the perfect solution. Thanks to the supportive environment, a short-term assisted living stay can also provide a safe place to recover following an illness or injury – before your parent returns home. Conversely, when constant medical care is the priority, a nursing home may offer the necessary resources and expertise.

If you’re not sure your parent is ready for either care option, keep in mind that the social, supportive environment found in assisted living can help maintain good health, allowing your parent to age in place. Many assisted living communities also offer independent living – with the option to add care services should needs arise.

Not sure where to start? Creating a long-term care plan will help your family prepare for changing care needs and identify available resources.

For older adults who want to maintain their independence, assisted living offers a safe and supportive environment to do just that.

Meet a few of the residents who have enjoyed a greater sense of well-being at Atria.

Jim and Rhea

Late one night, Rhea discovered her husband, Jim, lying on the kitchen floor, unable to get up. At 91, he was developing symptoms of dementia along with a heart condition that made him weak. For two years, Rhea had been her husband’s only caregiver and, at 88, she said she felt worn down.

“I had to take care of our four-bedroom house, pay the bills, deal with yard work, laundry,” Rhea said. “I was also taking care of my husband, who had just gotten out of the hospital. I had to do everything.”

Rhea knew caring for Jim on her own was no longer an option. After visiting four assisted living communities, the couple moved to Atria.

“Life here is absolutely wonderful,” said Rhea. “The staff has helped me so much by caring for my husband.”

With her husband receiving support and care services daily, Rhea feels more rested. She loves having time to read and sew, and even made Christmas gifts for the entire Atria staff. The couple also enjoys community events and gathering with neighbors.

“We’re extremely happy here,” said Rhea. “The staff is lovely, the food is good, the people are kind and generous. We are very, very content.”

Jean

After her husband passed away, Jean suffered a minor stroke. She continued living alone in her house.

When stopping by to visit, Jean’s children found her lying on the floor, unconscious. That’s when Jean’s daughter insisted her mother move across the country to be closer. They started searching for assisted living communities, and that’s when they found Atria.

“I’m so much better off than if I’d stayed in my house,” Jean said. “The support we get here is grade-A, and they make everything so fun and happy. Being here takes a lot of worry off my daughter’s mind.”

Maurine and Larry

After 55 years in their home on Long Island, Maurine and Larry needed a change. At 92, Larry had suffered a few falls and relied on a walker to get around. Maurine, 89, has balance issues and was finding it difficult to keep hauling laundry and groceries up and down stairs.

With help from their four children, the couple began looking for assisted living options. Shortly after starting the search, they found Atria, and Maurine says she and Larry are thrilled with their decision.

“I don’t have to carry bundles up the stairs anymore,” said Maurine. “They do the housekeeping, the laundry – which is great – and meals are prepared for us.”

Maurine and Larry are also improving their strength, balance and flexibility with occupational therapy sessions twice a week, and they both enjoy participating in the community’s classes and events.

“Life is a lot easier.”

Discover how empowering the right care can be at Atria Senior Living at ExploreAtriaCare.com.

Caring for a parent or older family member can be rewarding, but it can also be mentally, emotionally and physically challenging. Not to mention, there often comes a time when older adults need extra assistance following illness or surgery, or social engagement that their family caregiver is unable to provide.

For many caregivers and their families, respite care at a senior living community – also referred to as a short-term stay or short-term assisted living – is the right solution.

Here are six reasons to consider a short-term stay and respite care for seniors.

Quick Guide: Advantages of a Short-Term Stay

1. Caregiver relief

In the U.S., there are more than 40 million unpaid caregivers, nine in ten of whom are caring for an aging relative – usually a parent – which requires a commitment of time and energy that can be exhausting.

Caring for an older family member – on top of handling other daily tasks and responsibilities – can leave you frazzled and wiped out, often neglecting your own needs. Caregivers need occasional breaks to recharge and avoid caregiver burnout (also known as caregiver stress syndrome).

Symptoms of caregiver burnout include exhaustion, depression and resentment. Caregiver burnout can also result in you no longer being able to provide the level of care your family member needs.

A short-term stay allows caregivers to rest and rejuvenate for days or weeks at a time. This might mean a couple days off to attend to your personal well-being or a weeklong vacation – all while having the peace of mind that your family member is receiving the attention and support they require.

2. Recovery from illness or injury

Respite care can be an excellent option for seniors recovering from surgery, illness, hospitalization or injury. Assisted living communities provide a safe and comfortable environment for older adults until they’re ready to return home. Daily tasks like cooking meals, housekeeping and transportation are taken care of by a dedicated staff, so short-term stay guests can relax and prioritize their happiness and well-being.

Many senior living communities offer care services like medication management and assistance with bathing, grooming and getting dressed, all of which can help older adults recuperate more quickly and comfortably than they would at home. And having a team of trained professionals on-site means faster response time to any concerns or complications that may arise during recovery.

When deciding between returning home and respite care following a hospital or rehab stay, you should consider both how long recovery will take and what challenges your family member will face along the way. Safety checklists like this one can offer guidance when deciding which recovery option is the best fit for your situation.

3. Social engagement

Loneliness and social isolation can lead to major health issues for older adults, including depression, high blood pressure and cognitive decline. This can be especially true during winter when the weather makes spending time outdoors more challenging. But research suggests that socializing can improve mood and cognitive function, and it’s often associated with higher rates of exercise.

Short-term respite care at an assisted living community provides a variety of fun activities and social events to keep seniors engaged. Painting classes, book clubs, movie showings and game nights all offer seniors a chance to connect with others and form new relationships with people who share their interests – relationships that can provide lasting fulfillment and emotional support long after they no longer need short-term senior care.

4. Trial run before making the move

For seniors and caregivers considering whether or not to make the move to assisted living, a short-term stay can provide an idea of what their experience would be like. Any big life transition can seem overwhelming, but getting a preview of what day-to-day life is like in a senior living community can help ease any concerns. Daily social opportunities like craft classes, yoga and group dinners are some examples of what residents look forward to every day. A trial run can help you make a more informed decision about your family member’s future.

5. Convenience and flexibility for emergencies

Sometimes unforeseen events – a personal health emergency, another family member falling ill, a crisis at work – can suddenly require caregivers to attend to other aspects of their lives. Assisted living communities can often accommodate short-term stay guests promptly and for flexible periods of time, allowing you to focus on other concerns while knowing that your family member is in trusted hands until you’re able to resume regular caregiving duties.

6. Nutritious (and delicious) dining

Finally, senior living communities can provide a variety of meal options that many caregivers might not have the time or ability to prepare at home. Menus are designed with the health and nutritional needs of seniors in mind. Not only does this mean your family member will be receiving delicious meals during their stay, but they may also discover a new favorite dish.

Respite care can benefit everyone

For caregivers, self-care isn’t a luxury; it’s a necessity. To provide proper care for a parent or older family member, it’s important to also take care of yourself. With all the benefits and amenities assisted living communities have to offer, a short-term stay can be a positive experience for seniors and caregivers alike.

Atria Senior Living is the first senior living brand to deploy large scale, nationwide Alexa Smart Properties products. The new technology makes it easier than ever for residents to call the front desk, ask for transportation, and alert staff to a maintenance need. The devices also display curated video screens announcing upcoming Atria’s Engage Life^® events, important announcements and daily menus.

 

 

The first wave of Atria’s Alexa Smart Properties include:
Atria Newport Beach
Atria Del Sol
Atria at Foster Square
Atria La Jolla
Atria Woodbriar Place
Atria Rocklin
Atria Santa Clarita
Atria Hillcrest
Atria Valley View

Awards Determined by Top Reviews from Residents and Families

Atria is proud to announce that 49 communities have been honored with the 2023 Caring Star award – more than any other senior living provider nationwide. Of those, 19 recognize the Atria Senior Living brand, including six Caring Super Star awards. In addition to this stellar performance on Caring.com, A Place for Mom has recognized 74 Atria communities – including 47 within the Atria Senior Living brand – with the 2023 Best of Senior Living award.

Both awards are determined by the reviews of residents and their families on Caring.com and A Place for Mom – two of the leading senior living referral services.

“One of the best thank yous we can receive is when residents and families share the joy they’ve experienced in our communities,” said Sanela Graziose, Executive Senior Vice President of Sales, Marketing & Communications for Atria. “Our communities are home and much more for older adults – offering a lifestyle featuring chef-prepared meals, housekeeping service and a variety of holistic and engaging programs.”

Driven by quality

Atria holds its communities to some of the highest quality standards in the senior living industry. The Quality Enhancement program establishes a universal set of auditable guidelines to ensure consistent quality from one community to the next. Atria’s audit indicators include a variety of clinical factors for its senior living communities, along with a range of resident experience and customer service standards.

“We are very proactive when it comes to quality – we don’t wait for bad things to happen and then follow up. We try to look ahead and prevent issues,” said Sean Purser, Senior Vice President and Chief Quality Officer at Atria. “It has always made me proud to know we provide the best environment in the senior living industry. In the end, customer satisfaction and safety are two of the most important aspects we can provide to our residents.”

Winning communities

The following Atria Senior Living communities received the 2023 Caring Star award from Caring.com and/or 2023 Best of Senior Living award from A Place for Mom.

Caring Star Award

Arizona

•Atria Chandler Villas*

California
• Atria at Foster Square 
• Atria Golden Creek
• Atria Palm Desert*
• Atria San Juan 
• Atria Park of Vintage Hills*

Connecticut
• Atria Darien
• Atria Stamford

Florida
• Atria Park of St. Joseph’s*

Maine
• Atria Kennebunk*

Massachusetts
• Atria Draper Place
• Atria Woodbriar

Nevada
• Atria Summit Ridge*

New York
• Atria Rye Brook
• Atria Tanglewood

Pennsylvania
• Atria Bethlehem

Rhode Island
• Atria Bay Spring Village
• Atria Lincoln Place

Texas
• Atria Canyon Creek

 

Best of Senior Living

Arizona

•Atria Chandler Villas

•Atria Park of Sierra Pointe

California

•Atria at Foster Square

•Atria Del Rey

•Atria Del Sol

•Atria El Camino Gardens

•Atria Hacienda

•Atria La Jolla

•Atria Newport Beach

•Atria Newport Plaza

•Atria Palm Desert

•Atria San Juan

•Atria Santa Clarita

•Atria Sunnyvale

•Atria Tarzana

•Atria Willow Glen

•Atria Park of Vintage Hills

•Rancho Mirage Terrace

Connecticut
• Atria Darien
• Atria Stamford

Georgia

•Atria Park of Tucker

Illinois

•Atria at River Trail

•Atria Park of Glen Ellyn

Maine
• Atria Kennebunk

Massachusetts
• Atria Draper Place

Michigan

•Atria Kinghaven

Nevada
• Atria Summit Ridge

New Jersey

•Atria Tinton Falls

New York

•Atria Forest Hills

•Atria Glen Cove

•Atria on the Hudson

•Atria West 86

•Atria Park of Lynbrook

North Carolina

•Atria Oakridge

•Atria Southpoint Walk

Pennsylvania

•Atria at Cranberry Woods

•Atria Lafayette Hill

•Atria McCandless

Rhode Island
• Atria Lincoln Place

South Carolina

•Atria Forest Lake

Texas
• Atria Canyon Creek

•Atria Carrollton

•Atria Cinco Ranch

•Atria at Hometown

•Atria Sugar Land

•Atria Westchase

•Atria Willow Park

*Winner of Caring Super Star award, for communities who have won a Caring Star award for three or more years.

The moment has arrived – your parent made the decision to sell their home and move to a senior living community. Both of you may feel excited and relieved, but you may also feel anxiety and guilt, and your parent may feel sad, skeptical and even angry. Here are some tips to help make your parent’s transition to community living as smooth and stress-free as possible.

Our Checklist to Transitioning to Senior Living (PDF)

Prepare for the move to a senior living community

The myriad details involved in moving your parent to assisted living can seem overwhelming. Breaking things down into smaller, more manageable steps will reduce stress and simplify the process. Keep in mind, the senior living community is there to assist you every step of the way – their expertise and resources could save you significant time, money and headaches.

Write it all down – Don’t rely on scattered notes, emails and memory alone to manage important details. Get a notebook dedicated to your parent’s move and fill it with to-do lists, schedules, contact information, community apartment floor plans and anything else that will assist with the moving process.

Secure important documents – Make it easy for your parent to access important information they may need once they’ve moved into their new home by compiling it all in one safe place. Consider a fireproof box or small safe to store important documents like wills, medical records, their passport, birth certificate, Social Security card, etc.

Discuss the home sale with your parent – Before contacting a real estate professional, you may need to address the strong emotions associated with selling a family home. This guide and this blog can help with that discussion.

Consider the benefits of a real estate professional – While it may be tempting to sell the home yourself, an experienced professional can get you more exposure, sell the home faster and negotiate a better price – saving you the time and stress associated with listing and showing the house. They can also suggest smaller cosmetic renovations that could improve resale value with little investment. Ask the senior living community for real estate professional referrals.

Make downsizing uplifting – Your parent’s home is likely filled with cherished items acquired over decades. Allow ample time for them to sort through it all. Be patient and sensitive to your parent’s feelings, and keep these tips in mind:

• Get their new floor plan. This will help determine which furnishings will fit into your parent’s new home.
• Do a little every day. Sorting through mementoes can spark fond memories that evoke strong emotions. Allow time to determine what to keep, pass down to family or donate to charity – but encourage your parent to make this a daily activity so it doesn’t become overwhelming as the move-in date approaches.
• Purge paperwork. Throw out any old documents, files, newspapers and magazines that are no longer needed.
• Keep it festive. Make it a party. Put on some music, break out the wine and cheese, and invite other family members to help your parent sort through their belongings.

Take the pain out of packing – Seek estimates from at least two local moving companies and ask the senior living community for referrals. Allow ample time for packing – it typically takes much longer than most people think. Here are some more handy tips:

• Schedule family pickups. Give family members a firm schedule to collect anything your parent is handing down. Make sure any donated items are on track to be picked up or delivered to the appropriate charities – most will provide free pick-up service.
• Make a list. To make sure nothing gets lost in the shuffle, make an itemized list of everything that’s going to your parent’s new home. Be sure to note any fragile items or electronics that may require special packing.
• Manage medications. Before moving, make sure your parent has refilled their medications and, if necessary, transferred prescriptions to a pharmacy closer to the senior living community. Place all medications in a dedicated box for easy access in their new home.
• Notify others of your parent’s new address. Contact the local post office to ensure mail is delivered to your parent’s new home. If they receive Social Security or Medicare benefits, update their address online.

Make their new senior living community feel like home

The community director will show your parent the comforts and features of their new home while making sure essentials like medications, grooming tools and bathing items are within reach. Consider a housewarming gift like a recent family photo, knitted blanket, a favorite homemade dessert or crafts made by grandchildren.

Here are a few more ways you can ease their transition:

Get acquainted before moving in – A familiar face goes a long way to making one feel more relaxed and assured, so help your parent meet other residents and staff a few weeks before moving in. Accompany your parent to a meal in the community restaurant and introduce them to the chef. Visit the salon and say hello to the hairdresser. Encourage your parent to attend a social event or two to meet some of their new neighbors.

Give your parent space – You may feel tempted to visit and call your parent more frequently when they first move, but be careful not to overdo it. Assure them you’re available, but give them time to meet their neighbors and explore their new environment.

Encourage social connection – Enjoy an occasional meal with your parent in the community restaurant or join them for a social event, class or program. Take note if they are interacting with other residents and staff, and gently make introductions if your parent appears shy about making new acquaintances.

Monitor their well-being – When you talk to your parent, ask if they are eating well, taking their medications, engaging with others and staying active. Talk with the community director to stay apprised of your parent’s physical and emotional health, and ask what arrangements can be made to help your parent adapt to their new environment.

Manage the emotional impact

The excitement you feel over your parent’s new beginning can sometimes be accompanied by feelings of sadness or guilt, leaving you with doubts. Was this the right decision? Will my parent be happy? Will they make new friends? Will they be cared for?

Understanding the many ways older adults benefit from a community setting may ease these concerns. Explore “5 reasons why older adults thrive in senior living communities” and “How quality care services empower older adults” to learn more and consider other ways to manage any conflicting emotions.

Find support – Share your feelings and concerns with family and friends – they can often provide a different perspective or offer advice you hadn’t previously considered. If you still feel overwhelmed, consider discussing the situation with the director of the senior living community. If warranted, they can recommend a therapist to help work through this time. Seek out local support groups created specifically for children of older adults.

Consider the alternative – If you find yourself second-guessing the decision, reflect on all of the concerns that led to it. Maintaining a household was likely becoming more challenging and perhaps even more dangerous for your parent. Could you have continued to provide the level of care your parent needs, especially as those needs escalate? What about their feelings of isolation? Study after study has shown that daily connection improves well-being and happiness.

Know what you’re feeling is normal – Many children of older adults have felt like they were letting their parents down by not doing more to help them keep living at home. But encouraging your parent to move to a senior living community is an act of love that can empower them to live a more fulfilling life.

Call on us for help or support

As a leader in the industry, Atria Senior Living is happy to share our expertise and offer any support we can – even if the support you need is from someone other than us. Our trusted partnerships with local real estate professionals and moving companies could offer significant savings and take much of the worry out of your planning.

We can assist with your parent’s move every step of the way, from obtaining any needed medical documents to selling your parent’s home to the move itself. We can even put you in touch with interior designers that will fill your parent’s new apartment with furnishings that reflect their style and make everything feel homey.

We want to see your parent flourish in their new home from their very first day here. Reach out to your local Atria community director today to make your parent’s transition as positive and smooth as can be.

When deciding upon an assisted living community for your parent or older relative, knowing all of the options that are available to you can make things easier. Whether you anticipate transitioning to a senior living community in the near future or are simply conducting research, it’s important to know which senior care service would best fit your family’s needs.

In this video, Karen Devaney, National Director of Care Management at Atria, answers questions about which levels of care are best for your parent or older family member.

Identifying the right time for senior living or assisted living

As people grow older, the responsibilities of owning and maintaining a home can put their health and safety in jeopardy. This is especially true for individuals with care needs, who may also rely on their caregivers as their only method of social connection. Caregivers can be limited to just one or two people who serve a number of different roles. One of those people may be you, or perhaps you have tried your best to divide caregiving tasks among your siblings and other family members or hired an in-home caregiver to provide assistance.

A move to senior living or assisted living, a setting that offers 24-hour support, is often what’s necessary for your parent to maintain their sense of independence – and for you to have peace of mind.

Ask yourself these questions:

On a daily basis, does my parent or relative engage in physical exercise? Socialize and connect with others? Eat a variety of fresh, nutritious meals? Set goals and enjoy a sense of purpose? If you answered no to one or more of these questions, senior living may be a good choice for your parent now.

On a daily basis, have you experienced symptoms of caregiver burnout?

Examples include:

• High levels of stress due to an incident or hospitalization involving your parent
• Moments of depression or anxiety
• Trouble finding time for yourself
• Feeling a strain on your relationship with your parent

If you answered yes to one or more of these questions, it may be a good time to start looking into what services and support assisted living communities can provide to help your family.

What living options are available in senior living communities?

In many senior living communities, you will find three types of living options: independent living, assisted living or supportive living, and memory care. The difference between each community depends on the type of support provided. Some communities offer all three levels, creating a seamless continuum of services.

Independent living

If your parent is active and able to take care of daily tasks like bathing, getting dressed and grooming, they are probably best suited for independent living. These communities provide many opportunities for social engagement and the freedom to pursue personal interests without worrying about cooking, cleaning or home maintenance.

How to tell if independent living is right for your parent:

• Is my parent physically independent but often isolates? Am I worried that they may be lonely? It is common for older adults to withdraw from others as they age and find themselves napping or watching TV all day. Independent living offers opportunities to keep them engaged and active.
• Does my parent live alone? Do I worry about their safety or feel the need to constantly check in on them? Are they having trouble keeping up with home maintenance? If yes, the increased safety, security and sense of community provided by independent living would be a great benefit to them.
• Does my parent often rely on me or others to transport them to appointments, run errands or handle everyday tasks? Are they still driving on occasion and probably shouldn’t be? They may find independent living ideal since common services include transportation, cooking, cleaning, maintenance and more.

Assisted living and supportive living

Assisted living communities – also called supportive living or personal care communities in some areas – usually offer 24-hour support with a broad range of senior care services, including:

• Personal care services such as bathing, grooming and getting dressed
• Safety checks
• Escorts to and from meals and events
• Medication reminders, which includes consultation with primary physicians and pharmacies, plus ordering prescriptions and scheduled reviews by a licensed nurse
• Transportation to and from local appointments
• Assistance with telehealth appointments
• Incontinence management

Full-time licensed nurses are often employed at assisted living communities to serve as another layer of professional support. And for further convenience, physicians typically visit communities, so residents can see a doctor in the comfort of their home.

Some assisted living communities partner with rehab facilities to offer therapeutic services on-site; “house calls” at the community may be arranged if on-site services are not offered.

Communities that offer customizable levels of care can help enhance the quality of life for older adults. In addition, quality senior living communities will empower their residents to live a more active, independent lifestyle.

How to tell if assisted living is right for your parent:

• Would my parent or relative be at risk if they spent a few days alone? If yes, assisted living would be an ideal option.
• Does my parent have a degenerative disease or serious medical condition? Even if your parent manages fairly well and only requires occasional support, assisted living could be the best fit.
• Is the condition of my parent’s home concerning due to their inability to clean or take care of maintenance? If maintaining the home has become too difficult for your parent, consider assisted living. However, if your parent is able to maintain their home but no longer wants to worry about the day-to-day tasks associated with home ownership, independent living would be a good fit.

Memory care

If your parent has challenges due to long-term effects of Alzheimer’s or other forms of memory impairment, they would greatly benefit from a memory care community. These safe and secure environments offer round-the-clock staff to provide specialized care services and medication assistance. Additionally, auxiliary programs like support groups for caregivers, opportunities to improve cognitive health, and events to keep residents happy and engaged are common at communities that offer memory care services.

A thoughtfully designed community that offers dementia care will leave no detail unturned to provide a better quality of life for residents. Some examples include playing familiar music throughout common spaces to soothe residents and serving meals on colorful dinnerware to increase food recognition and appetite.

Deciding whether or not memory care is right for your family member can be complicated depending on their stage of impairment.

How to tell if memory care is right for your parent:

Does my parent often wander off or forget where they are? Do I have concerns about them getting lost? Have they recently gone for a walk and got confused on how to get home?

If so, memory care may be right for them.

Do I have concerns that my parent is unsafe at home alone? Do they remember people and places but forget to do important tasks like turning off the stove, locking doors and eating three meals a day?

Forgetfulness could be a common sign of aging; however, advanced memory loss can pose a safety risk. If your parent struggles to remember certain safety practices, choosing a community that offers both assisted living and memory care services would be ideal in the event their cognitive health declines.

Do I worry my parent is in the early stages of dementia?

First, visit a doctor for an official diagnosis, since there are other diseases that can present themselves as dementia. If your parent is in fact in the early stages of dementia, consider an assisted living community that also offers memory care as their condition progresses.

Senior care services at Atria can help your family

This is not a comprehensive questionnaire, and you do not have to answer every question immediately or all on your own. Transitioning from home to a senior living community can be a difficult and overwhelming process, but we are here to help.

At Atria, each resident in an assisted living community receives a thorough assessment of their physical, emotional and functional status from a licensed nurse. During the first 90 days, a reassessment is conducted to verify that we are providing the appropriate level of care.

Thereafter, additional assessments are performed quarterly or as-needed based on caregiver recommendations or changes in condition. These evaluations help us see that our residents are properly cared for and are among the factors we consider in determining and monitoring staff levels.

The professional staff at Atria Senior Living is here to assist you and your family – from answering your questions about senior living to sharing info about senior care and more. If you’d like to connect with one of our knowledgeable staff members for a one-on-one consultation, contact us. We’d be more than happy to discuss the right level of care for your parent.

Our Guide on Deciding if it is Time for Your Parent to Move into Assisted Living (PDF)